True Love

Would you love me if I were stupid?

Would you love me if I were plain?

Would you love me if I were fat(ter than I am now)?

Would you love me if I were skinny?

Would you love me if I were buff?

Would you love me if I were flabby?

Would you love me if I were slutty?

Would you love me if I were chaste?

Would you love me if I didn't read?

Would you love me if I didn't write?

Would you love me if I were famous?

Would you love me if I were unemployed?

Would you love me if I were modest?

Would you love me if I were boastful?

Would you love me if I were old?

Would you love me if I were young?

Would you love me if I were(n't) gray?

Would you love me if I embarrassed you?

Would you love me if I cried?

Would you love me if I beat you?

Would you love me if I lost?

Would you love me if I teased?

Would you love me if I clung?

Would you love me if I never realized my talent?

Would you love me if I prayed?

Would you love me if I weren't any of the things that you say you like about me?

Who is it whom you see when you say, "I love you"?

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